AfroSoulmates

Dating black men has always been a dream that many women have cherished for life. There will be quite a few people asking what’s so special about black men that makes them the hottest people to date on earth. Black men have always been a mystery for white women probably because of the fact how they have been depicted in the movies or turned down in the newspapers. A special propaganda has been there in place to keep the white women from dating black men. Not anymore though! Interracial dating websites have been quite helpful in removing the tight compartments between black men and white women and have brought out the best qualities of black men in the open which makes them the perfect dating material.

Dating black men means you dating someone straightforward

Black men are pretty straightforward. They will not beat around the bush. They like something they will say it then and there. And if they hate something they are going to make their mind very clear what they dislike. This straightforwardness of black men makes them quite honest in interracial relationships. Once you start dating a black man and have his trust you are never going to repent it. Black men are quite reliable when committed to a relationship and will go out of the way to keep the romance and the relationship alive and happening.

Dating black men you get to travel a lot

Black men love to travel. Sometimes economic constraints may not allow them to travel far and wide still they have been bitten by the travel bug. You stand a chance of seeing and visiting new places that you have never heard of once you start dating a black man. Your love life is going to change with new places to visit with exotic food and of course the extra fun that is going to come with a black dating partner. Monetary constraints can be taken care of easily if both of you are into each other deeply.

Black men take their future seriously

Unlike a majority of the men from the other races, black men take their future quite seriously. In case a black man is asking you for a date and is making plans with you for the future take care his plans are for the long term. They have a penchant for excelling in almost everything they take up seriously and dating is one of them. If you are dating black men you will probably notice they are always on time will give you that extra care you have been missing with men from other races.

Manners and balanced ideas

Gone are the days when black men were considered to be prudish and would be considered as ill mannered. Black men especially while dating are the most well mannered people on earth. They will take care to hold the door for their lady, sit after she has taken a seat and make her feel like a princess. Black men generally have balanced ideas on any subject.…

No one can escape falling in love. A biracial relationship is a result of love between two individuals who come together shunning the barriers of race and ethnicity.  If you don’t find love, Love will find you. We are a go getter generation and don’t let love happen to us.

Today we go on online dating websites look out for compatible individuals. Ask them out for a physical date away from the online dating scenario, fall in love and unfold a new life for our self.

Getting into a biracial relationship via an online dating website is quite exciting. Biracial relationships open up an entirely new world for both the partners. Life becomes an everyday party and there are varied experiences almost every day.

Support network from two races in biracial relationships

Lisa and her husband Tang were working as top shot executives for a financial institution. They had found each other on an online dating website and decided to get married. Enjoying the bliss of a biracial relationship they were not able to comprehend that the financial institution they were working for was in shambles and suddenly one day it closed shop. Being the top executives of a top financial firm Lisa and Tang were shocked.

Meanwhile Tang’s cousins back in China from where Tang came to California in search of a new life were looking out for someone who could take care of their business interests in California. Tang’s cousins based in China and had a language and geographical barrier. Tang and Lisa are today managing partners and co founders of three organisations that facilitate Chinese operations within USA. Their earnings have skyrocketed and their company has surpassed the earnings of the company they were working for previously.

Had it not been Tang’s cousins in China, Lisa and Tang would have been forced to take up menial jobs compared to the work they were enjoying as investment bankers. I have seen a lot of success stories among biracial couples. A biracial couple enjoys support network from two different races, sometimes from two different countries.

Whenever two people enter into a relationship they bring in a strong support network they have nurtured over the years. This support network may sometimes seem a hurdle when you start dating but eventually over time it turns into an asset that you can rely upon in your bad times.

A new perspective to religion and culture

Being in a biracial relationship means you respect your partner’s religion and culture. You get a first hand experience and even a chance to practice it. Jack being a devout catholic started fasting for Fathima while she helped him to comprehend and learn the religion which of course changed Jack’s views of a her religion that he knew nothing till now. The fasting of course brought Jack’s health level from being obese to just a few fats here and there which further motivated him to get back in shape and take up the job of a life guard at one of the finest beaches in Miami. Jack and Fathima dated for 3 years and have been married for the past 4 years with a kid who has an IQ level of more than 125.

Yes kids from biracial relationships get the diversity from both the races, and get quite features from both parents and both races which makes them more strong mentally, physically and emotionally as compared to kids from same race parents.

Biracial Babies are taller and have a tendency to think Quick

Research has proven that genetic diversity affects height in a big way. If one of the partners in a biracial relationship is tall chances are that the kids are going to be tall with improved cognitive abilities and a quick thinking brain. Mixed race individuals have been known to posses more IQ and emotional stability.…

Love does not know any color or discrimination on any basis. However society, sometimes, because of its preconceptions is bound to a knee-jerk reaction if anything new happens. Something new happening in the society essentially means challenging the old order and setting pace for new, many a times, better orders within the society. Interracial dating and interracial couples were ridiculed and still are seen as outcasts in many parts of the world. We have always been taught to gel and mix with people who belong to our race and social strata. Love knows no race and social strata discrimination. Love happens because your heart goes out to someone irrespective of the challenges and obstacles you know are bound to happen in future.

Interracial dating and relationships are being accepted in many parts of the world as the new social norm still we as human beings have a long way to go in terms of accepting as just like any other relationship that is built on the face of earth.

Family acceptance in an interracial dating scene

Family acceptance in any relationship upholds utmost importance. Many relationships and marriages these days are a result of interracial dating. Emotional acceptance on the family’s part is more important than social acceptance. While dating a partner from a different race make sure you keep your parents and siblings in the loop since they are going to play a significant role in the emotional well being of you and your partner. People may show that they hardly care about the opposition from their parents while dating interracially know deep down their heart that the relationship will look empty without the consent of their parents. Do not loose respect in your family’s eyes and make every effort to have your partner accepted into the family loop.

Your partner’s ethnicity is questioned in public

Going to a social event, restaurant, shopping or even for a stroll in the nearby park together will make heads turn for interracial couples. Learn to live with it. People may even ask you “Is he/she with you?” You need to have the guts to accept and tell the person that yes you are together as a couple. Shirking away from people who do not have respect for interracial couples or have no idea of interracial dating will be disrespect to your partner. Acceptance by you in public that this is a serious relationship and not a passing fetish will not only bring out the strong character and substance you are made of. It is surely going to add up to the strength of the relationship.

People do not believe that both of you are together

Your friends, co workers and even your family may take your interracial dating stint as a passing phase of life. Be ready for it since you are not going to be taken too seriously unless you make your intentions clear. Your partner deserves respect among your people and you are the one who is going to get or earn the same for him or her. There may be instances in public where the two of you may be seen as different entities although you are a couple. The bill in the restaurant may come up split into two although you never asked for it. While going out in public with the family of your significant other you may feel out of place since you look different and someone from the public may even make you feel that you are indeed different from them.

Cultural difference in interracial dating may be a big hindrance

It is all about balancing life once you have taken the plunge. You may not be able to match your holidays since you celebrate different festivals and she celebrates different. Your coworkers and friends will try and convince you of the vast cultural difference between the two races. You are constantly hounded by lectures of how you are going to ruin your own beautiful culture and embrace something that is not really worth it.

Stay strong! You are the one who is going to change the thought process of the society. It all starts with dating but will surely set up a new order and a great example that interracial dating although laden with challenges of its own will survive through anything and will surely culminate in long term relationships and beautiful offsprings.…